You are arguing that nobody should be allowed to choose.
I never said a thing about what other people are allowed to do. My point was if there’s no physical attraction the relationship isn’t going to work because the physical intimacy isn’t going to last. Unless you just don’t care about physical intimacy I guess. Also I said I tried dating someone I wasn’t attracted to. What is that if not “choosing”? I can’t turn myself off an on at will. My initial response was to you saying that by looking for someone you find attractive you are looking for a trophy. Implying that the only reason to do so is to have someone to show off. That’s insulting. I don’t give a shit about what other people think about anyone I’m in a relationship with. Our attraction to each other and compatibility is what I care about.
Yeah it isn’t fair if you do it and don’t want to. Therefore, you may chose. You are arguing that nobody should be allowed to choose.
I never said a thing about what other people are allowed to do. My point was if there’s no physical attraction the relationship isn’t going to work because the physical intimacy isn’t going to last. Unless you just don’t care about physical intimacy I guess. Also I said I tried dating someone I wasn’t attracted to. What is that if not “choosing”? I can’t turn myself off an on at will. My initial response was to you saying that by looking for someone you find attractive you are looking for a trophy. Implying that the only reason to do so is to have someone to show off. That’s insulting. I don’t give a shit about what other people think about anyone I’m in a relationship with. Our attraction to each other and compatibility is what I care about.