I’m sorry. It sounds like your ex is saying they can’t love anyone who isn’t numb to being treated cruelly on a routine basis, which is pretty fucked up and pathetic for them. And it’s good for you that you were so sensitive because you recognized what wasn’t safe love before it became even worse, or before it wore you down to a point you thought you deserved it. I’m glad you got out.
I’m sorry. It sounds like your ex is saying they can’t love anyone who isn’t numb to being treated cruelly on a routine basis, which is pretty fucked up and pathetic for them. And it’s good for you that you were so sensitive because you recognized what wasn’t safe love before it became even worse, or before it wore you down to a point you thought you deserved it. I’m glad you got out.