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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • There’s no reason this has to be binary. You don’t have to choose between her being a makeovers and mimosas pal and being an enemy or a stranger. There’s a lot of space between those poles, and there’s no reason that you have to choose a static point on that continuum and stick with it forever.

    Right now, you’re hurting and reestablishing boundaries and your sense of self. If she’s the friend she says she wants to be, she will respect that and give you space. After you’ve had some time to heal, maybe you can be more friendly, but for now she should accept your need to insulate a bit.

    For me, the primary, immediate goals would be to a) heal and b) avoid making things worse for the kids.



  • This.

    For those not in the industry, the drivers for this are green tags and production tax credits (more common in wind).

    Green tags are basically attaboys for funding the generation of renewable electricity, and are tradable.

    Production tax credits are a $/MWH tax incentive for generating renewable power, and are, again, tradable.

    In both cases, then, there are incentives for renewable projects to keep producing power even when the wholesale power price at the point of interconnection is negative, as there are generation incentives that still make it better than idling.

    From an environmentalist perspective, this is fantastic, as virtually all of this renewable generation represents offset coal and gas peaker plant generation.






  • Most of us on the left here would like nothing better than to be rid of most red states. On the whole, they take more federal tax dollars to prop up than they contribute, and their backwards ass attitudes hold the rest of the country back.

    HOWEVER…

    1. Most progressive voters would rather not abandon all of the disempowered minority groups in those states to their fate.

    2. A “national divorce” as described by the space lasers lady would be incredibly messy and potentially devolve into a war and further violent and messy balkanization of the country.

    3. Finally, having an impoverished, highly inequitable theocracy for a neighbor sounds like a massive headache.




  • I am a parent, and… that’s not how this works.

    Your kid doesn’t hear “I need a few minutes to deal with my human feelings,” they hear “daddy is mad and doesn’t want to play with me.” They don’t have the emotional intelligence yet to understand that you’re a person, not just the mythic figure of parent that they see.

    This is why the trope of daddy taking a minute alone on the toilet is A Thing.

    On the upside, you’d be surprised how often you can destress precisely by being a kid with your kid, playing Legos and cuddling. Being a dad is hard, but it’s awesome.