Danke, bin grad raus und ist super gelaufen. So viel geschnackt wir sind aus Versehen über die vorgesehene Zeit gegangen :D

Hab morgen ein Vorstellungsgespräch, Informationssicherheitsbeauftragter in ner großen Klinik. Such schon seit ein paar Monaten nach nem Job nach dem Bachelor. Hoffentlich klappt das, wäre nämlich eine schöne Stelle.

if you think I’m tone policing, block me and report my comment. Don’t go around accusing people of it to further argue with them

No one claims it isn’t, but taking your mental distress out on others is also not helping

Amongst other things claiming that everyone in blahaj is American is kinda just a dick move. No one owes you a space to spew your “tough love” so to speak. Young people in and outside of America get to hear it daily already from people in their vicinity. You’re not helping.

I have to actively pretend to be someone I am not in a place outside of America, so why would I let you berate me on how I should be willing to have they/them pronouns be used on me? Funny thing is, I sincerely do not care about the pronouns used for me, but the way you go about communicating with people just makes me sick of it.

Your speech is no different than my family telling me to act a certain way to be more palpable to the “cishet population”. I and other people are not obligated to listen to the ramblings of a mentally distressed queer person who thinks we’re all just a bunch of cry babies.

Eggs have a natural membrane that is removed through washing in the USA amongst other places, for example. This membrane allows eggs a longer shelflife and also allows them to be kept unrefrigerated

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Sorry that trans people aren’t “UWU soft beans~” all the time or whatever, you don’t just get a free pass to insult people when they’re being assholes

Everything you say just goes back to “Drag doesn’t deserve to have drag’s pronouns respected”. You have yet to define what it takes to have their pronouns respected by you, always just quoting some incredibly vague troll or asshole reason.

How long is it going to take until you understand that your insistence on misgendering someone is only making you out to be a hypocrite and a transphobe at best.

By all means, tell me, do you respect my existence as an agender person because the only thing I’m seeing here is you telling me there’s some vague definition of valid trans-ness that I have no idea if I’ve managed to reach, or am even capable of reaching. And that alone should tell you enough about your behavior.

There is no winning with you, only a vague attempt at justifying transphobia, and considering you have yet to ever reply to Blaze, who’s also giving you very valid reasons, tells me a lot.

Lol, lmao. In German we don’t have they/them so xir/xer, no pronouns or neopronouns get used. Xir/xer are neopronouns too btw. Your argument is based on your own made up reality. Neopronouns are real and accepted. Maybe even in your own made up language some day

THANK FUCK

Transphobia like you apparently enjoy spreading is the last thing we need, so thank you for removing yourself from the situation, much appreciated

I am going to be honest here, I have no idea how to explain to you that using the same tactics as transphobes just because of an annoying user is wrong. You’re clearly not interested in understanding, and from what I can tell are just looking for an excuse to be an asshole transphobe yourself

Yeah, a few. Some use more out there ones too. Not my place to judge though obviously

Once again asking you at what point someone deserves to be misgendered? If it’s because of troll behavior? Congratulations, you are literally telling me basic human decency depends on if someone perceives me as a troll or not.

Is drag doing that? Or are you just trying to find a flimsy excuse to misgender someone? Because you still have yet to tell me why specifically Drag deserves to get drag’s pronouns disrespected. And being an asshole should not be a reason as stated before

I don’t get them either, but that’s the important part, just because you don’t understand them doesn’t mean it gives you a free pass to ignore/invalidate them.

I myself consider it/it’s pronouns to be extremely weird, but does that mean I misgender the people who use them? No, obviously not, because that is rude.

Even if it’s silly, using neopronouns is much less of a hassle than people think it is. Drag’s are extremely simple at that too.

Yes, because it’s still misgendering. If we allow ourselves to misgender someone because they’re an asshole, then what the hell makes us better than open transphobes? Please explain to me how misgendering drag is different from misgendering my good friend using neopronouns who isn’t a troll? How can you misgender drag, just to turn around and tell me that you respect me? If drag can somehow lose the respect to be gendered properly, what does that mean for me? At what point am I considered too much of an asshole to be given the basic human courtesy of having my pronouns respected?

I’m sorry, but dealbreakers are dealbreakers for a reason. And dealbreakers aren’t stuff that should be treated like it can be changed easily. Dealbreakers are things like political alignments, interest in having children, marriage and other stuff.

And asking women to give a guy they don’t like “just a chance” has not done anything ever for anyone, seriously. The amount of times I hear about women giving the “weird guy” a second chance has always ended in the guy either seriously overstepping boundaries or taking the later rejection even worse. I have yet to meet a “weird guy” who hasn’t done something seriously heinous later down the line.

And I am certain you didn’t mean it that way, but saying “It’s ok for you to help your dates avoid these” makes it sound like you’re advocating for invalidating womens opinions, as if they can’t make decisions for themselves and need help from a man to make the “right” one.

Love how drag lives rent free in your head. Seriously, get a hobby dude, obsessing about a trans person this much is not healthy.

At any point you could have simply blocked drag, but no, engaging with drag is so much better, isn’t it? Now you’ve made posts upon posts and comments upon comments about how blahaj is weird, about how drag does not deserve to have drag’s pronouns respected, and how admins/mods/whatever on blahaj are bad.

To what end? To tell the greater user base that your opinion is superior? To make it known that drag is weird and in turn potentially cause drag to be harassed? To have the admins and mods be harassed? To have individual users with non-standard pronouns harassed?

You say you don’t care and wish Blahaj well, but your posts and comments say otherwise. My friend, it might not have been your goal, but your posts and comments are rather inciting in nature, people will get harassed because of you.