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Cake day: October 27th, 2024

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  • Does he acknowledge that something is different between you than before?

    He told me that sometimes he just doesn’t feel like responding to me anymore, which again i understand

    What exactly do you understand and why do you understand?

    we don‘t talk much and we don‘t go outside either because he doesn‘t feel like it.

    I asked him many times if he is okay and what‘s wrong but there is never anything wrong.

    i had a terrible day and was crying on the train back home and he wasn‘t responding to me the whole day, so i texted my friend and she comforted me and offered to watch a movie online together when i am home. So i did that. My boyfriend was upset that i didn‘t call him when i got home and didn‘t want to speak to him after. I was hurt, because i really was struggling and i don‘t ask for help often but he wasn‘t there even though i know he was on his phone because i kept seeing his reposts.

    Did you and him talk about emotional care, like how when one isn’t available or stressed out over something, that it’s OK to meet your emotional needs with other people like friends or so? Or what everyone would want or give in an emotional time?