So straight out the gate: I don’t ever really flirt (yes, even if I like the girl). And I’m not sure whether I should change strategies. So hence my question.

Note: I am a guy.

Edit: Thank you all for your input. I have come to the realisation I need to let the other party (better) know I am romantically interested in them. Either by means of flirtation or otherwise.

  • MissGutsy@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    17·
    4 days ago

    I feel like flirting isn’t really something people do while dating nowadays. I (and probably some other women) find it more annoying if you wanna get to know the other person. Most flirting I like is after you’re already in a relationship, because you can be sure that the other person is safe and not a creep. Of course you still need to find a way to show interest

    • Fat Tony@lemm.eeOP
      7·
      4 days ago

      Of course you still need to find a way to show interest

      Do you have any tips on how to do that?

      • MissGutsy@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        2·
        3 days ago

        Try to get to know her. Ask follow up questions to show you’re actually listening. Tell her you are interested in another date afterwards. Stuff like that, even if it sounds generic