I’m looking for answers from instance admins, if you’re a regular user, you can still answer but it’s more helpful for me to get answers directly from admins.
If a user on [instance A] asked another instance (Instance B) to remove their federated account and federated content copies from instance B (likely also banning it so content doesn’t continue to flow) would the user on Instance A be in trouble with their instance admin for asking for such a thing.
Obviously it depends on the instance’s rules but that’s part of why I’m asking the question, to get answers from instance admins on this.
On one hand I can see how it would since, since it hurts interoperability and can create tension between instances, but on the other hand a user has the right to be in specific places or not be in those places, that probably extends to not wanting to be federated into an instance they find objectionable (assuming it is for good reasons).
So I’m not sure where I fit in. I run my own instance, but it’s a single user instance that only serves me. Also, I currently don’t run any magazines (communities) of my own.
If I was the user on Instance A asking on Instance B … well that means Instance A is my own, and I obviously wouldn’t get in trouble with myself.
If I was the admin on Instance B - a user from elsewhere was asking me to remove such content on mine - I’d go ahead and do it. Not worth the potential headache or ramifications that would come with refusing.
I think in general, the admin on Instance A would not be upset with the user. If anything, in this situation the user is probably trying to delete their account and history, so the admins of Instance A would be thankful that the user went to instance B and saved the admins the headache of trying to contact other federated instances themselves to coordinate a manual deletion. (The only thing worse than dealing with a GDPR request is trying to get others to help you deal with a GDPR request - particularly without pay.)