UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml to Memes@lemmy.mlEnglish · 2 months agoAwake, but at what cost?lemmy.mlimagemessage-square13fedilinkarrow-up1708arrow-down18file-text
arrow-up1700arrow-down1imageAwake, but at what cost?lemmy.mlUltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml to Memes@lemmy.mlEnglish · 2 months agomessage-square13fedilinkfile-text
minus-square9point6@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up13·2 months ago5 minutes is superhuman btw, I need a good half hour before anyone can expect anything remotely reasonable from me
minus-squareintensely_human@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 months agoYou should ask for what you need. Even if people refuse, at least it’s an outright refusal which is more clear than not having asked. It feels uncomfortable, but the payoff for this kind of boundary-drawing is enormous.
5 minutes is superhuman btw, I need a good half hour before anyone can expect anything remotely reasonable from me
I’m a 10-15 guy myself
You should ask for what you need. Even if people refuse, at least it’s an outright refusal which is more clear than not having asked.
It feels uncomfortable, but the payoff for this kind of boundary-drawing is enormous.