• eee@lemm.ee
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    7 months ago

    really? I haven’t used Bumble myself but I’ve heard stories of guys with inboxes full of women just saying “hi”

    • Omodi@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      In my experience all the women do start with hi however 100% of them engaged with the conversation after that. It felt much better then getting a bunch of matches but most of them ignoring you(understandably).

    • Captain Aggravated@sh.itjust.works
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      7 months ago

      The story I heard was 9/10ths of the women on the platform had “I don’t message first, you message me first” in their bio, so it was functionally a display case for morons.

    • CybranM
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      7 months ago

      Basically my experience