• Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca
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    11 months ago

    I don’t honestly know why it feels so weird. I guess maybe because it feels a little self-serving and silly. Like, asking for a massage serves a function to relieve muscle tension. But asking for stimulating tickles on my arm makes me feel self-conscious for some reason.

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        11 months ago

        I second telling her!

        And I’m also one for firm squeezes instead. Light touches make me overstimulated. All the light touches for my partner instead!