• Anamana@feddit.de
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    11 months ago

    No. It’s just an equivalent to ‘why don’t you smile? You look so beautiful when you do’

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      11 months ago

      You’re just wrong lol. Asking someone why they don’t smile more is fucking patronizing. Asking why someone looks angry all the time is about asking to learn more about them, as they have genuine interest in the person.

      Do you honestly think a woman would ask a man why they look angry all the time if they genuinely believed the man was simply angry?

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        11 months ago

        Both can be patronizing.

        Do you honestly think a woman would ask a man why they look angry all the time if they genuinely believed the man was simply angry?

        And yeah, why not?