• Melancholia@kbin.social
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      It’s spoons because the person originated the idea was at a restaurant and trying to come up with a way to explain her situation to a friend, and just grabbed whatever was nearby which happened to be a bunch of spoons. Then the story went viral and it stuck.

      I’d like to call them “action points”

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      i know right? all those years of arithmetic training with apples, and the toss a spoon at you

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    My gf and I use this analogy all the time actually. It’s generally how we describe being mentally exhausted from the activities of any given day.

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      Yeah, “How are your spoons?” is a common phrase in my friend group anymore for that exact reason. Personally, I’ve also used battery analogies, like being “low battery.”

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    I’m at a stage in my medication where I can handle a three-spoon day most of the time but four, that’s a challenge. If my wife wants to go grocery shopping after work or something, it’s such a trial.

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    I tried once and the person had no idea what I was talking about. Might have been willful ignorance, though.

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    This isn’t quite the original one, but I guess people need it simplified.

    I mean, you can „borrow“ spoons from the next day, but you’ll have to even pay interest. You usually cannot save a spoon for the next day. And the spoons you have available vary from day to day. I guess that is above the understanding for those who have unlimited (edit: autocorrect souls) spoons.

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    3 spoons to eat a meal but 1 spoon to skip it… how often are you supposed to eat food anyway?
    meh. i’m gonna just lie here and hoard spoons

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    I refer to “steps” rather than spoons. I have severe arthritis and walking exacerbates the pain, so there’s a pretty hard upper limit on how many steps I can take in a day, but there also seems to be a longer term limit that’s lower than just multiplying by the number of days. If I use up all my steps today, I can’t use as many tomorrow. If I go over my practical limit in a single day, it can take multiple days of almost zero walking to recover to my crappy baseline.